It is you creating a pathway for women to be comfortable with their desire to have sex with you as fast as possible without judgment. Societal Programming trains women to be sweet and polite to strangers.This is one of the very rare times Societal Programming actually works in your favor. A lot of younger guys are very ashamed that they are virgins, or have only had sex with three women or whatever.I’ll just summarize here by saying that if a woman rejects you, your irrational reaction is that ALL women will reject you. When I was doing daygame I had the exact same experience. That new girl you’re seeing you think is Not Like The Rest™ is actually JUST like the rest.
Always remember that when you want to say hi to that cute girl, or ask a girl out, regardless of the outcome she will be sweet about it. They assume that if they tell a woman of their inexperience, she’ll laugh at them and turn down sex for that reason alone.
While it’s true there are a small percentage of women who prefer experienced men, the vast majority of women out there, I’d say at least 85%, do not give a about shit how sexually experienced you are.
Most of you already know I got divorced 9 years later, and I could have avoided a mountain of headaches. Damn, during high school there were swarms of hot girls all over the place, and as a young dumb teenager I just became used to it. Holy crap, was I in for a shock when I left high school and went right into the full-time corporate world!
My world shifted from hot, young, fun, happy high school girls to overweight, angry, jaded, stressed out, over-33 office women.
While he agreed it was a smart move to skip college and go right to the corporate world, he lamented that I had missed out on the best “pile of tits” I could have ever experienced. One of the guys on my staff was a dude named Chris, who was year or two younger than me. While he was a shitty worker, he was good looking, extroverted, socially competent, and had natural game with women. ” A few nights later he, I, and one of his buddies all went to a dance club downtown. Chris took the hottest one, a blonde who looked like a model. If you’re a young guy just starting out, if you have any natural friends, become their best damn friend and soak up all the knowledge you can from them. If you don’t have a natural friend, do your very best to get one.
As I mentioned above, I didn’t lose my virginity until my early 20s. He had sex with tons of chicks, and while some were ugly, many of them were hot as hell.
They were either variations of the “take her out to dinner and kiss her ass” variety (like that will get you laid fast) or the “lie to her and tell her you’re a doctor” variety (which was only good if you want one night stands…lying during the seduction phase is useless if you desire relationships or any other form of recurring sex). For most of my teenage and early adult years, I was under the impression that if I somehow “got” a woman to kiss me or have sex with me, I was somehow convincing her or tricking her into doing something she didn’t want to do.
So in my early 20s, I was the typical beta stumbling around in the dark, trying to do what felt right (which is almost always wrong when it comes to women), not getting laid very much beyond when I got lucky. Only much later in life did I discover it’s actually the exact opposite.
I’ve been talking to a lot of younger guys lately about women and dating.