He also brushed off a chance to set the record straight without lying.
Second, there's the issue of expectations you two have not discussed.
You may want the help of a sex therapist to unravel this tangled situation and reassemble a situation that works for both of you.
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On one level, I wonder if you should strive more to control your sexual appetites and not allow your sexual urge to drive you “crazy.” Easy for me to say.He said that having sex online was harmless and a way to "get off" without breaking his marriage vows (we've been married 10 years). A: This is a situation I see more and more often as the Internet becomes a staple in homes.Two main issues are in play here: honesty and uncommunicated expectations.This situation underlines the importance of checking in with one's spouse or partner about the various aspects of long-term relationships: finances, in-laws, jobs, children (if any), housekeeping, plans, and sex. So, even though you said your vows and have been together for a while, it sounds like the topic of online chatting and surfing porn sites never came up.People assume that because they are with a person they know pretty well, they also know how their mate feels about these topics. Sit down with your husband to have this discussion.In other words, you may be paying for someone else’s fantasy at the same time as your own.