I was always a very liberal girl in regards to relationships/casual things and I felt the need to do things in secret before going to college and make like-minded friends who didn't judge me.It's like guys ask for girls to be more willing to do casual stuff, but then antagonize them afterwards.I have dated Portuguese and foreign guys, I would rate Portuguese men as the most conversative, only beating the Italians.
For example, when I lived in Rio de Janeiro, everyone used Tinder without issues.
It was normal for girls to meet guys there without any issue at all.
I am a portuguese girl but I am going to write this in english so that foreigners can also read, understand and contribute if they want.
I have a portuguese friend who keeps telling it's hard to get portuguese girls, because we are snobbish and picky comparing with foreigners. Also, do you think that portuguese men aren't as sucessful maybe because they don't have as much confidence to approach someone as foreign men, because around here there's not much of the "hook-up" mentality? With my simple guide, you'll be meeting portuguese girls in no time at all!
However, the men didn't label women as easy if they used Tinder.
Here in Portugal, only my guy friends use Tinder and when they spot an acquaintance, they start gossiping and saying that girl is looking for dick.
My main criteria in order to establish a fwb relationship would be to find a guy who was able to keep his mouth shut and be trustworthy.
I have an English cousin that moved here to finish the 12th grade.
But I always see the same side of the issue being discussed here and it's more complex than that, it's not strictly a women's issue, it's a societal issue. I was called "slut" by an ex boyfriend because I already had relationships with other guys before even knowing him and because I kissed a guy that I was interested in (and he was also interested in me) in our first date.