And remember, it's kind of sexy when a man feels empowered enough to discuss his feelings.There are enough hurdles to making a relationship work, however old you are, so why let age add more stress?
This certainly makes sense if you are in your 30’s as hitching up with someone your own age on a permanent basis means when you have kids your wife/partner will most likely be menopausal and the kids will be going through adolescence.
Marrying a younger women when your in your mid 30’s who is say 25 years old can avoid all those dilemmas down the track. If men were to change the way they actually think about relationships with women and their age relative to how old they are and what lies ahead what a huge mind shift this would be for men. We live in a world of “Species in Denial” when it comes to the unconventional.
We at malenirvana have spent some time researching this question of morality with 40yrs something males and 20 yrs – 24yrs something females the younger women older men scenario.
The conclusion is that young women like older men because the relationship comes with benefits – lots of them.
I date guys within about a 25-year range, say, 40-65, and I have observed some differences.
None of them matter a whole lot, but still it’s fun to point them out. I try really hard not to slip into a mother:son dynamic.
“Younger women often seek the companionship of older men for many reasons.
It’s not just about the common denominator of what people think.
If you don’t make it an issue, chances are it won’t be.
If you really like her, just go with the flow and be yourself, regardless of whether “yourself” is a silly, dorky, immature 57-year old or a wise and mature 24.
No point in psychoanalysis with this as it’s been going on for centuries and will continue to do so regardless of the critique.““Whoever, in middle age, attempts to realize the wishes and hopes of his early youth, invariably deceives himself. Do you think a 44 year old man should be having an intimate personal relationship with a 20 – 21 year old woman?