We dated for a couple months before she told me she was married but didn’t wear a ring because she felt divorce was imminent.We only lasted a couple more months before the stress of seeing each other while she was still married overwhelmed us…..
We only lasted a couple more months before the stress of seeing each other while she was still married overwhelmed us….. I just didn’t want to get into the whole “I’m in the process” conversation.
We said we would take it up when the divorce was complete, and the house was sold. They even had another baby after we had our relationship. Well, this relationship flourished and we started dating exclusively.
We said we would take it up when the divorce was complete, and the house was sold. They even had another baby after we had our relationship.” I don’t know the two (or three) people in that relationship, but what happened was not an ‘imminent’ divorce.
What happened was nearly 20 more years of some level of commitment from the woman’s husband. Start by realizing that just because dating can make a lot of sense to those who are divorcing, doesn’t mean it makes sense for you to date them.
Perhaps they’re ready for a new commitment, especially if the old one was broken long ago a’ la strangers under one roof.
They might not think they owe loyalty to a feckless, faithless mate, or one who prolongs the proceedings.
I felt really crappy although all my friends told me it was no big deal. We ended things about 6 weeks later because I found that I simply wasn’t ready to date someone exclusively. My divorce should be finalized within the next upcoming months. There are just so many variables that can make it complicated.
I learned that I definitely needed time in between relationships. some do not ask me out again (I’m assuming that my I’m not-quite-divorced yet status may have something to do with it… Last week I went on a date with this guy and when I told him that I was in the process of getting divorced he said “so you’re married!? I would definitely recommend anyone considering it take the decision very seriously.
Dear Duana, I’ve gotten involved with three women I met online in the last year, only to find they were all still married. It makes a lot of sense when you see it from their side.* People need love, or at least some contact.