If You Don't Have Inner Game, They Won't Go Beyond "Let's Just Be Friends..." I see a lot of guys learning the "48 Second Technique To Get A Woman's Phone Number." Yeah, great stuff, until you realize that this will not guarantee you: In fact, getting a phone number is only the START of the game.
If you don't have the confidence and psychology mastered in advance, you probably won't even get past the approach - IF you even approach her at all.
Have you ever felt: ..you're destroying your chances with women because you don't have the level of self-confidence you need?
Otherwise you end up with game that looks like this: This is what you don't want...
See that small area where "inner game" and "outer game" intersect?
What do you need to feel in order to get your "Inner Game" handled?
Ultimately, it really boils down to a feeling of control over your own life.
I wanted to figure out how to get control of my confidence, my emotions, and my crazy mind. Well, it's a pretty fancy term for some of our most important traits as a man.
Inner Game includes things like: You Can Get All The Phone Numbers And Dates You Want...
I think that every guy has had that feeling - almost like being possessed - where you just can't seem to control your emotions, or your own behavior.
You know what you SHOULD be doing, but when you try to do it, there's this invisible force that stops you. I had a bad temper, and I could barely control myself when I was around an attractive girl.
And, in reality, just by using another guy's lines and words, you're sending a subtle message to your self-esteem that the only thing you can do to attract women is NOT be yourself. But Don't You Need Techniques and "Outer Game" Stuff To Attract Women? So, yes, you absolutely need the techniques and conversational strategies that I teach.
BUT the fact is that you simply cannot run completely on "Outer Game" scripts either - on techniques and routines - all by themselves.
You don't want to feel like other people control your success with women. I know a lot of guys that would tell you that you don't need techniques - that if you have the inner game confidence, then your outer game is automatic. I'm sure you've felt confidence walking up to a woman and found that your tongue was tied and your head got all foggy the second you tried to say something.