Just because she's shy doesn't mean she's not confident. She simply hasn't had enough time to get to know them yet. Being the center of attention is basically her worst nightmare. Please don't mistake being shy for not being self-assured. Please plan a small gathering as opposed to a huge party where 20 strangers will descend on her at once and freak her out. If she isn't speaking too much at first, it's not because she's disinterested.
Why does he go from super confident and bold with his friends, to quiet and nervous around you? It seems so obvious to me as a man, but to women, it can come across as a man being unfriendly deliberately. Confidence, but when he starts talking to you he becomes Mr. Maybe his voice is even shaking he’s that nervous around you. I mean, he’s a good-looking guy and you want to get to know him.
For one thing, don’t ask him outright, “Am I scaring you?
If you read the comic strip "Peanuts," you probably know about the little red-haired girl. Charlie Brown worships her from a distance -- a long distance.
The few times he gets up the nerve to approach her, something gets in the way and messes things up. A lot of guys can sympathize, some more than others.
He seems like he’s always having such a great time. One minute he’s confident and bubbly with his friends, then he talks to you and goes into himself, then he goes back to his friends and he’s all energetic and lively again.
The weird thing is, whenever you go to talk to him or make conversation he starts getting really nervous and edgy. You need to understand something very important about this man. I’ve asked a few women why they think men get nervous around them, and some feel like the change in behavior is a deliberate attempt to turn her off, or to show he isn’t interested in her. When he’s talking to the bar man or waiter he’s Mr.It does take a lot for him to put himself out there, but he does it for you, making him the perfect adorable shy boyfriend!Find the best way to get a shy guy to open up, be comfortable and make a move.Don’t sit back when you’re talking to a nervous guy. He’s not always going to be shaking like a leaf in your presence. Once you get through that nervous shell of his, you’ll probably find a strong, confident, passionate man inside him, desperate to get to know you and become your man.He may not always be the one to initiate conversations, but you can be sure you will never catch him not paying attention when you’re talking!For chronically shy guys, every girl is that little red-haired girl. While we can't cure shyness in five easy lessons, we can give you five tips for overcoming your inner Charlie Brown -- five strategies to boost your confidence.