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This is one of the most common dilemmas my patients have brought to me over the past four decades.
Though there are multiple variations on the theme, there is one way in which they all are similar: two women are in a competitive triangle with the same man.
Triangles are stable when all three legs are connected.
All these "call me's" and "let's go out's" are starting to really turn me cool on the friendship.
I'm not saying your guy is the same as me, but if he wasn't the one who initiated the separation he might share some of the feelings I do.
If you decide you want to be his rebound, then prepare yourself for the "I'm confused, I need space, I want to date someone else, I think we should see other people" speech.
Being up front and honest from the beginning is the only chance to keep that from happening, IMHO.
I guess the best thing to do for now is leave things as they are and follow his lead.