Even if the impact you made on her was badass, it’s important you show her you’re not just a one trick pony and keep the fun alive.So no meaningless texts like “how are you doing”, “what’s up” and “hi”, which will contribute nothing of value to her image of you. Trying to arrange a date before you’ve made a girl excited to see you again is a fatal mistake countless guys make over and over again.
Make sure you change the subject and once the joke is over, don’t keep going back to it if you’ve got nothing better to say.
It doesn’t matter how insanely fun you were when you met her because she’ll forget all those positive emotions as soon as you fail to maintain the vibe.
” If you really want to send her photos that’ll put a smile on her face, send photos of adorable furry animals. If you’re using text slang, improper grammar, or being lazy about checking your messages before you send them, chances are you’ve already blown it. If she never swears or uses slang language, never use it back.
She’ll appreciate those a lot more 🙂 “I had a gr8 time last nite. Read your texts before you send them and don’t use slang. Note: LOL and WTF are ok to a point, but try to avoid these in the first few texts so you can test to see if she likes using them. If she sends you a long message, reply with a long one back. No girl wants to look in the mirror and see a witch staring back, so don’t give her a bad reflection by sending 6 texts back if she only sends 3, or reply to a 20 character sentence with a 200 character text monologue.
Your level of investment must either match or be lower than hers, so adapt to her texting style and respond in tune with her. To avoid slipping into the friend zone at all costs, avoid idle chit chat like the plague.
Tease her, play with her, include her on inside jokes so the feelings of fun and attraction she felt for you when you first met are not only maintained but amped up, so your texts light up her eyes rather than dull her day with the burden of having to text you back.Remember, hot girls receive dozens of texts a week from guys just like you. If you haven’t sparked enough emotion, she’ll more than likely turn you down.That’s why the first few texts you text a girl are critical in pumping her emotion to the point that when you suggest a date she’ll be gagging for it.If you gave her a nickname when you met her then that’s fine, but only use nicknames if it’s already an insider joke between the two of you, otherwise it’ll appear like you’ve totally forgotten her. Some guys will lose their mind staring at their phone waiting for her to reply, and when she does they’ll rush to pick it up and reply with something daft and incoherent.If you want her to think you’re a desperate loser, who has nothing else to do in his day, has no social life and who’s world revolves around her, then go ahead, text her back instantly, every single time.Read on to discover the 21 shocking mistakes men make when texting girls, so you can stop burning numbers and start getting dates! Text her immediately after getting her number – within fifteen minutes after you meet her is good.