The reason that you were insecure about lack of experience with women / inability to pickup is because in some long forgotten point in time, you thought it was necessary for you to be happy and fulfilled in life. You can’t change your subconscious by chanting into a mirror every morning or meditating your way through it.
This is something that can only be achieved through action.
You spend your life, stuck in your head, trying to deal with imaginary situations based on what you think other people might say or do if they found out.
The problem with this is that there are 1,000,000 different situations you can dream up and 1,000,000 more ways to deal with them.
You need to become happy and fulfilled, whilst the thing you’re insecure about is still there.
When you can do this, you’ll stop worrying about your receding hairline because you’re happy despite the fact that it’s still there.
But until you tell them, it’s just empty thoughts and fairy tales. Then, once you’ve done that, open up to people you’re comfortable with.
I’m not suggesting that you just have to run onto the street and yell your deepest, darkest secrets at the sky. Then, open up to people you don’t know quite so well.They’re showing you that they’re not the kind of person that you want in your life and you can eliminate them without wondering whether or not you’re making a mistake. ” Then you’ve been wasting your time with a pack of arseholes for FAR too long and it’s about time you did something about it. For you to really eliminate your insecurities for good, you need to prove to yourself that you can actually be happy, fulfilled, and free despite your lack of money / weird family / poor fashion sense.Now that you’ve dealt with the baggage from the past, you can start to move forward. Logically, you might know that being overweight doesn’t stop you being happy but obviously, there’s some part of subconscious that hasn’t quite caught on.But here’s the catch: you can never solve an imaginary situation because it doesn’t exist.Until you have something real and concrete to work with, you’re just going to spend your days imagining and thinking without ever making any progress.You could literally sit, stuck in your head, for years of your life trying to come up with a solution to every situation.